{"id":634,"date":"2024-02-17T00:09:43","date_gmt":"2024-02-17T00:09:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/simmscounselling.com\/?p=634"},"modified":"2024-02-17T00:43:07","modified_gmt":"2024-02-17T00:43:07","slug":"what-is-dialectical-behaviour-therapy-dbt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/simmscounselling.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/17\/what-is-dialectical-behaviour-therapy-dbt\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)<\/strong> is a great fit for people who are interested in learning skills, it\u2019s a therapy that is useful for all humans, in my opinion.\u00a0  It was originally developed to treat severe, complex and persistent mental illness, and over time it\u2019s also been proven effective with depression, anxiety, addictions, eating disorders, any much more.\u00a0 Fundamentally DBT skills help to reduce impulsiveness, enable \u2018responding\u2019 rather than \u2018reacting\u2019, and develop more effective ways of coping with pain and problems. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>DBT views problem behaviours as a set of learned behaviours that we therapists help people unlearn. \u00a0DBT&#8217;s perspective is that in our lifetime, there will be an infinite number of painful things that happen to us and problems we will encounter, yet there are only 4 possible responses when pain or problems come into our life:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(1)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Solve the problem<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(2)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Feel better about the problem &#8211; change or regulate our emotional response to the problem<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(3)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Tolerate the problem \u2013 accept and tolerate both the problem and our response to the problem<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(4)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Stay miserable \u2013 do nothing, use no skills, or even make things worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the main assumptions in DBT is that people may not have caused all their pain and their problems, but they have to solve them anyway.\u00a0 The skills offer new behaviours to experiment with, I refer to them as a \u2018buffet\u2019 of offerings \u2013 and just like I\u2019m not going to like every item on a buffet, not all skills will work for all people &#8211; but every person I\u2019ve worked with has found some skills that work for them. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">There are 4 &#8216;Categories&#8217; of skills in DBT: <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>*Mindfulness:<\/strong> or ways of managing your attention, taming your mind, which is helpful for all of us, since we aren\u2019t born with an instruction manual for our mind, and while it is our greatest asset, an untamed mind can also be our worst enemy;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*<strong>Emotion Regulation: <\/strong>understanding the purpose of emotions (because we can\u2019t get rid of them), and managing and coping with emotions. This is extremely helpful for those who feel like emotions get the better of them or run their lives, and make situations worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>*Interpersonal Effectiveness: <\/strong>a variation of \u2018assertiveness skills\u2019, helping people develop more satisfying relationships by asking for what they want, setting and maintaining boundaries, saying no effectively, and managing conflict differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*<strong>Distress Tolerance<\/strong>: or bearing pain skillfully, how to accept and tolerate a situation that can\u2019t be changed, or which one has no control over;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How is DBT different than CBT <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>DBT is based on CBT, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. CBT is related to the interaction among thoughts, emotions and behaviours, it helps people CHANGE their thoughts and behaviours in order to influence CHANGE in their feelings.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What DBT adds to CBT is it&#8217;s focus on ACCEPTANCE and TOLERANCE, this is where the reference to DIALECTICAL comes in.  Dialectical refers to balancing opposites &#8211; while recognizing the need for change, DBT also emphasizes accepting ourselves in the moment.  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